Kids are “live in the moment” individuals. Their developmental age keeps them interested in what is happening in front of them. This is different from adults. Adults consider the moment, the immediate future, and the impact from the past or from their personal experiences. Adults can make decisions based on the best assessed outcome for them and for those around them. Adults are aware of the consequences of their actions. Children are much less aware of this and need to learn it as they grow into teenagers and adults, at which point, their brain will fully develop and they will think more like adults. When we want our children to listen to us or follow our guidance, we are taking into account all of the factors that will impact the decision. Kids simply do not do that. Somewhere, deep down on an unconscious level, they know that they are too
